It is said that the average woman speaks around 5,000 words per day while the average man speaks around 2,000 words per day. If you work full time outside of the home, the number jumps to as many as 4,000 words a day for men, and 10,000 words a day for women. On top of that, we send countless emails and text messages and Facebook updates every day. In short, we live in a world that’s all about communication.
THE TONGUE
Proverbs has a lot to say about what we say. If fact it addresses our talk more than any other book in the Bible and it’s a great place to start when studying this subject. Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” According to James the tongue is a hard thing to control. He compares it to a bit in a horse’s mouth, a rudder on a ship, a wild beast and a small spark that can set a fire of destruction as big as hell itself. Ephesians 4:29 tells us that we should only speak “what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” In Matthew 12:36-37 Jesus says, “Men will give an account on the day of Judgement for every careless word they have spoken.” That verse made me think about the 4,000 words I speak everyday.
THE HEART
In many ways, the tongue indicates what’s going on in the heart. Matthew 12:34 says, “Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.” What a constant reminder of the importance of “God's Transformation”. My prayer for the day is, "God please change my heart and make me more like You.” Because where the heart is the tongue will soon follow.